Here’s Just A
Little About Me
I Believe People
Can Connect Through Food
I Believe People
Receive More By Giving
I Believe In The Magic
Of Kindness & Connection
Well I Declare!
as my Grandmother would say . . .
You believe these things too?
I think we’re gonna be friends!
I’m Elizabeth (or Beth for short), and I’ve spent over 35 years immersed in:
- Party and Event Planning
- Print and Stationery Design
- Culinary and Baking Studies
- Social and Business Etiquette
- PR, Marketing and Communications
my southern calling
How Scribbles and Grits Began
Born in Georgia and raised in North Carolina, I learned early that Southern hospitality was about the little things:
- A warm welcome
- A kind word
- Simple gestures that make people feel at home
At 17, I won the North Carolina State Hostess Award from Kraft, Inc. (now Kraft Heinz) in a national scholarship program. But more than any prize, I discovered something I now share with you:
Hosting isn’t about perfection—it’s about creating connections that matter
Through decades of event planning, running my stationery business, and welcoming people into my home, I’ve learned what really works:
- Thoughtful touches that say “you belong here”
- No fancy décor required
- No elaborate menus necessary
Then COVID reminded us all that connection finds a way:
- Virtual dinner parties with distant family
- Musicians giving porch concerts
- Cities applauding healthcare heroes
- Sidewalk chalk messages of hope
- Car parade birthday celebrations
These moments proved what I’d always believed:
Real hospitality isn’t about WHERE you gather, but HOW you make people feel
That’s why I created Scribbles and Grits—to explore how hospitality weaves through every aspect of Southern life, from our traditions and culture to our daily interactions.
Entertaining is always thinking about the next course — Hospitality burns the rolls because it was listening to a story
Jen Wilkin, author & Bible teacher
And let’s be honest—haven’t your best moments happened over burned rolls too? 😂🔥🍞
Now, I’m here to share everything I’ve learned with YOU
Through deep dives into Southern culture, traditions, history, and etiquette, I explore how the six pillars of Southern hospitality shape every aspect of our lives:
Charity • Charm • Helpfulness • Kindness • Politeness • Home Cooking
Because Southern hospitality isn’t just about setting tables or hosting parties.
It’s the thread that runs through our entire way of living, loving, and connecting with one another.
Scribbles
and
Grits
Southern Hospitality
in Heap’n HELPings
Here, I invite you to dive deep into the spirit of the South through time-honored food stories, hand-picked goods, fun Southern creations, and toe-tappin’ content, designed to help you discover, experience, learn, and share authentic Southern culture and traditions.
SO LET’S BREAK THIS DOWN
What is Southern Hospitality?
While most would define Southern Hospitality as being neighborly and welcoming, one survey narrowed it down to six definitive qualities . . .
Michelle Darrisaw, Southern Living MAGAZINE
IT’S A MATTER OF HEART
What is Heart Hospitality?
Heart Hospitality requires a giver’s heart and a loving approach.
Best of all, these acts of kindness have scientifically proven benefits.
Doing Good For Others Is Also Good For You
You Benefit
Your “love” hormones get a BOOST
Work Benefits
A community & family atmosphere develops, resulting in productivity, profitability, and employee longevity
Kids Benefit
Kids make more friends
. . . and faster
And when you put kindness superpowers to work, there is a high likelihood that the receiver and witnesses will pay it forward.
WHAT’S NEXT?
Tour The Site – Don’t Miss a Stop!
These stops are still settlin’ in — check back soon!
COZY UP!
AND CLICK AROUND
Read Up
Buttercup
Snag My Southern Finds
Shop My Southern Goods
Watch My Southern Videos
Test Your Southern Smarts
